Age: 53
Height & Weight: 5'8" & 161lbs
Interests: Tops

"BEFORE you attempt reading apparently the LONGEST profile text on ******* and I am NOT kidding you, I must thank WHOEVER at ******** put my photographs in the "Gallery of Daddies", not only during the week of August 16 but AGAIN with a DIFFERENT photograph apparently yesterday, August 23 or today, August 24, for WHEN I opened ******* usually with NO messages or 1 or 2 at most, there were 59 this morning!

Now to all you incredible men who have expressed such kind and complimentary words, words quite honestly I have NEVER had someone in real time say to me, I want you to know how humbled and flattered I am, being touched to my very core.

Through you personal comments, telling me a bit about yourselves and our similarities, I feel I NOW have this new "bank" of friends and possibly more, men with whom I can share everything from discussing opera and literature to our sexual and erotic desires, HOPEFULLY and PLEASURABLY living them out in real time!

Miles are just miles and nothing more. I would give up ALL I have and ALL I am to have "HIM" and in doing so becoming a better "ME". So, just because we live states and countries apart, NEVER think ANYTHING IS IMPOSSIBLE WITH ME! I am actually in the midst of selling my home and moving, destination yet un-known, so MANY places could become "home", preferable with my loving partner.

What has amazed me, in spite of those few who have been so critical with nasty comments resulting from their warped PERCEPTIONS of what they to believe my narcissism and egotism, is the fact most ALL of you, the vast majority, actually READ my ENTIRE profile, EVERY long paragraph, EVERY tiny detail. Not to sound like Sally Field upon winning her second Oscar in 1985, her saying "You like me, you really like me", but NOW I KNOW how she felt that night, for there are those special men on this site who through all my ramblings have been able to "see" me and in spite of me. I am truly able to say "You like me, you really like me".

I PROMISE each of you, and I am a man of my word, even though it will take me days in doing so with the number of messages I have received thus far and more to come I am sure, I SHALL write EACH of you a personal message, not a "copy and paste" message, but one solely directed at each of you individually, based upon your message and your profile.

Who knows, maybe my "HE" is among you, and if so, this "haystack" will be a most pleasurable one to dig through and wallow in, me enjoying every minute. Thank all of you so much for making me feel what I ALWAYS have wanted just once, "TO BE MORE THAN I THOUGHT I COULD BE". Now with your messages and encouraging words you have raised my "bar" for me and I will do my very best to clear it with flying colors, hopefully living up to your expectations of me.

Now THIS is the beginning of my LONG profile text! :-) I simply want to meet men of all ages (I find every age has something to offer me and for them something they can hopefully in exchange receive from me), for friends, dates, sex (individual or couples) and hopefully and ultimately find my partner and soul mate for life, the man with whom we shall live life fully and love each other more than life itself. IF you would rather just stop here and email me, my email is **********. I just thought I would throw that in right now! LOL

I know, it is a far-reaching dream, but as the Disney song goes "A dream is a wish your heart makes, when you are fast asleep". So, really, subconsciously, I am not struggling with a dream but already living it in some way inside my being, and if I can "see" it and "him", then I know I can "be" it and have "him".

We Sagittarians, a fire sign, are extroverted and masculine, doing what is right. We are truthful, virtuous, seldom showing fear, having moral and mental strength and fighting for our principles, unwilling to recognize defeat.

For MYSELF, as the centaur with my bow and arrow drawn, I am patiently waiting for "him" to appear and my "arrow of love" once released, accurately hitting the mark....his heart.

Let me make one VERY IMPORTANT factor crystal clear with all men, young and old. IF you are "happily partnered" (If so then WHY are you even on here?), IF you are "unhappily partnered" (If so then WHY are you still together? YES, I know "unhappily is NOT a recognized word, but I simply MISUSE it for emphasis), IF you are in an "open relationship" (just call yourself a "roommate" or "in a relationship of convenience"), IF you are "married to a woman" (enough said), IF you are closeted/must be discreet due to you "career position" (give me a fucking break!) and IF I have left out any of the REST of you LOSERS who can not seem to use your FREE WILLS to make the RIGHT and HONORABLE CHOICES in life regarding who and what you are, PLEASE DO NOT message me, neither PM or attempt to chat with me in the rooms, for we have NOTHING in common. I have no intention of being your "toy on the side"!

I agree with the user who has in his profile text "Isn't it funny how no one writes "UNhappily partnered"? The game all of you above are playing is one in which you will always be the loser because you ENTER the game AS a LOSER! Now, ASK my true convictions on this subject if somehow you have not grasped what I just said. Sorry, guys. NO "Have your cake and eat it too" with me! I do not like "LEFTOVERS" and "USED GOODS" nor will I BE such!

YES, I am definitely interested in all the many aspects of man-to-man interactions and sex on many levels, from vanilla to kink, so do not think I am not human, a mortal with carnal desires, hedonistic in fact, for I am, and sexually am like some wild animal.

But, regarding all my "sexual statistics", I will tell you all those "things" every gay man is DYING to know BUT I have found IF the size of a man's "big head" is larger and broader than the size of his "little head", all those "things" will work out just fine! If we meet, we will bring out the ruler and measure BOTH!

I'm 5'8" tall, weight 161 pounds (I want to increase to at least 170 or more, "growing my body" as much as I can), my BMI is 23.7, I'm muscularly lean (as in veins show all over in places, my abs included), I have a very good SHORT haircut with salt & pepper hair, green and VERY expressive and powerful eyes, clean-shaved or not more than a 3-day beard growth with a recently added soul patch, pierced ears with the tiniest titanium segmented rings hardly visible and a very small tattoo on the inside of my left forearm, an adapted design representing an unsolved Egyptian fractional equation, a very hairy body for NOW with a VERY THICK chest, treasure trail, ass, bush , pits, forearms and then a regular amount on my arms, legs, abs, etc. I USUALLY trim/clip down once a month with clippers and different guards, it taking me about 1 hour to do it right so it is MUCH shorter, as in 1/8" long but me still looking hairy, plus I have what little hair on my back waxed along with my asshole monthly as well as shave my balls 3 times a week when showering at the gym), I am 7" HARD cut with a defined helmet head, nice slit, medium thickness and VERY LARGE (think medium to large eggs) balls. Guys ALWAYS seem to go for them every time.

I'm HIV-, drug and disease-free, a non-smoker and drink hardly at all, VERY healthy with a full physical this past February, work out 3 to 4 times a week with a very strict diet, water, vitamin/mineral/supplement as well as sleep regimen set by my Olympian cyclist trainer. Other than weight training, different methods for cardiovascular workouts, I enjoy yoga, Pilates, rock climbing, rappelling and mountain biking, finding the more "extreme sports" when life is a bit on the edge MUCH MORE thrilling and fulfilling.

Oh, and for the record, I was obese since childhood until almost 13 years ago when I lost 95 pounds in 6 months, me choosing to take my life back and have the body I SHOULD have had all my life, the body I KNEW could be mine if I worked and sacrificed. Yes, I'm physically different now and have kept myself "in check" these last new 13 years, but in NO WAY do I see my body, my exterior persona and physicality, as that which best and most defines me. It is a part of me, of course, but I do not see myself as possibly some of you might see me and some of your "terms" truly go right over my head for I never heard them most all my life. What you see is NOT genetic but completely hard work and sacrifice. So to those of you who think you CAN NOT change your body, you CAN, but ONLY if you are self-motivated and want it enough. If you can "see" yourself then you can "be" yourself but YOU must take control and make the sacrifices.

Now, let us get on to the "GOOD STUFF". Sexually/erotically I can go from 0 to 100 in 5 seconds, from passionate kissing to things very wild and kinky (PM me and ask). I can not get enough of lovemaking...the kissing, nibbling, cuddling, close body contact, whispering, etc. BUT I also have this "OTHER" side of me who loves this wild and rough, i.e. BDSM, bondage, CBTT, being kidnapped and captured, ripping/tearing/cutting of clothes, being used/abused/tortured, forced body hair clipping/shaving/ripping out, hot wax, spankings/floggings/canings, cum control/edging/chastity, forced nudity/exhibitionism, being made to service groups and groups using me, ritual "scenes", leather, role play and on and on and on. Remember guys, this is ALL done with guys with whom I have spoken and communicated for a WHILE, met for "initial public meetings" and it is FULLY consensual and simply living out fantasies, which there is NOTHING wrong with this kind of "play" if everyone is in agreement. I have a VERY, VERY HIGH pain threshold and am able to easily translate and convert pain into pleasure, intelligently KNOWING there is pain but enjoying at the same time.

Sometimes I get in my car and just drive around at night naked, maybe parking in a shopping center parking lot or that of a city park, or go somewhere remote, sunning naked, hoping someone may "find" me unexpectedly. Also, I have met guys who wanted me at their door stark naked or were having a party and wanted me on the table as the "buffet" on which to place all the fool from which the guest ate. It ALL is erotically VERY HOT and SUCH a turn on for me. Being sexual is MUCH MORE than simply fucking and sucking guys!! There is fun and then there is FUN!

I am DEFINITELY a bottom and NOT a top, so PLEASE do not ask me to fuck you because it is just not me nor am I capable even were to take 2 100mg Viagra!! Being a bottom in NO ways means I am less masculine or the "woman", for I am a power bottom, very aggressive, so you WILL have your work cut out for you, I can assure you of that. I enjoy NOT knowing what is going to happen, taken by complete surprise, overwhelmed and then "taken". I get off NOT being in control, being told/made/forced to do things. It is SO MENTAL more than physical for me.

ALSO, I have a MAJOR fetish for several things in particular. One is ANYTHING relating to underwear and under gear (briefs, boxer briefs, bikinis, Speedos, thongs, g-strings, jocks, Lycra, spandex, mesh, see-through, low-rise, low-cut, very skimpy....you get the picture. I LOVE being seen in just this (have danced in bars wearing only briefs, cowboy boots and a cowboy hat and had a BLAST) or what is REALLY HOT, having guys send me a pair of their underwear of whatever, KNOWING my cock and balls will be EXACLTY resting where theirs were just a few days before.

The "other fetish" is a guy's bush/pubes. I actually trim/clip/massage guys, free of charge and SOMETIMES upon my suggestion, get them to allow me to totally remove this pubes, which I first do with scissors very close to the skin, saving each guy's bush in a sealed plastic bag with name and date and have a great collection now but ALWAYS looking for more, so IF you would care to send me YOURS, I'd LOVE having them!!

So, sexually approach me with caution or simply jump in. I might bite but trust me you will LOVE the "mark" I leave on you! You will not die but rather, you will finally begin to live and KNOW life!

Oh, and for the record, all this begins with THE MOST PASSIONATE KISSING. IF you are not capable of this, we really are not compatible.

Now, about me OTHER than my sexual proclivity, I am the eldest of 4 sons, having grown up in a very rural, redneck country town in north Louisiana, SOMEHOW surviving and getting out, KNOWING there was more to life than that, but it giving me a GREAT foundation for "reading" people if nothing else. So, I can have conversation with the garbage collector or a CEO and can easily transition without stumbling.

I have a fairly high intellect, with a Master's degree in art/art history and a PhD in American and English literature, having owned 2 companies, one retail and the other strictly design, create fine art (assembage/collage/3-dimensional) along the lines of the works of the famous Surrealist Joseph Cornell, have a passion for writing novellas, poetry as well as keeping my daily journal in stream-of-consciousness writing format, play the piano fairly well (I began lessons in the 4th grade) and LOVE my 1980 Yamaha G3 matte ebony 6' grand, photograph and collect "collectible photography", grow and "breed" bonsai plants/trees and love reading.

I ADORE most all music of the female jazz vocalist genre, from the 50s and 60s (Dinah Washington, Ella Fitzgerald, Della Reese, Etta Jones, Carmen McRae, Nancy Wilson, Gloria Lynn, Ketty Lester, Dakota Staton, Chris Connor, Anita O'Day, Keely Smith, Eydie Gorme, Doris Day, Blossom Dearie, Jane Froman, Eva Cassidy, etc. and let's NOT forget the INCREDIBLE Dame Shirley Bassey!) right up to the contemporary singers who carry on the tradition, artists such as Stacey Kent (she and I email each other on a regular basis before and after seeing/hearing her in concert on my birthday a few years ago), Monica Mancini, Tierney Sutton, Jane Monheit and many others.

I have this PASSION for operatic female vocalist all the way back to the German-born, Austrian/British soprano Elisabeth Schwarzkopf (THE "standard"), the Tennessee-born soprano for whom Elvis Presley named "Graceland" Grace Moore (my maternal grandmother's roommate at the prestigious Nashville, Tennessee finishing school, Ward-Belmont (Clare Boothe Luce, Mrs. Douglas MacArthur and Mary Martin were just a few notable alummae), who then went on to be an Academy Award-nominated actress in "One Night of Love"), the Greek DIVA soprano Maria Callas, the Spanish Catalan soprano Montserrat Caballe, the Latvian mezzo-soprano Elina Garanca, the Canadian soprano Measha Brueggergosman (CAN you forget her "Wagnerian" singing of the "Olympic Anthem" at the opening ceremonies of the 2010 Vancouver Winter Olympics? I THOUGHT I was listening to "Ride of the Valkyries"! It's NEVER been sung as well!), right up to my very favorite, the Romanian soprano Angela Gheorghiu (phonetically pronounced "gear goo") just for those who might be curious. And, I had the pleasure and honor of meeting her a few years ago after her iconic role as Mimi from Puccini's "La Boheme". She treated me with such kindness, like her would-be lover actually, and we became IMMEDIATE friends, exchanging emails and phone numbers!

I KNOW I received ALL my creative talents and abilities from my maternal grandmother without a shadow of a doubt, a highly educated woman, the Poet Laureate of Arkansas, who was a prolific poet as well as being clairvoyant as well as being fully convicted she had lived a previous life in India.

In saying this ("...shadow of a doubt"), my FAVORITE movies are "Shadow of a Doubt", "His Girl Friday", "The Enchanted Cottage", "Cat People"/"The Curse of the Cat People", "The Bishop's Wife", "I'll Cry Tomorrow", "Auntie Mame", "Now Voyager", "The Letter", "East of Eden", "The Night of the Hunter", "Wild River", "The Roman Spring of Mrs. Stone (the ORIGINAL with Vivian Leigh), "A Streetcar Named Desire", "Dead Ringer", "Some Like It Hot", "Suddenly Last Summer", "Titanic" (THE original), "The Madwoman of Chaillot", "The Children's Hour", "Mrs. Miniver", "My Man Godfrey", "No Highways in the Sky", "The Greatest Show on Earth", "You Can't Take it With You", "The Alien Quadrilogy", "The Matrix Trilogy", "Enchanted April", "Wings of the Dove"...well, I could go on and on. WHAT is this CRAP we are "offered", FORCED TO ENDURE today, and WHO are these people PRETENDING to be great actresses and actors? How very sad. I am sorry. I LOVE Sandra Bullock, but she is NO Bette Davis, Vivian Leigh or Ethel Barrymore! NONE of what we have today, their names, could EVER be used in the same sentence with the true "STARS" who had TALENT!

I ONLY watch USA, TNT and TCM on television, LOVING "Burn Notice" (MMMM Michael and Fiona!), "Numbers", "Royal Pains", "White Collar" (OMG! Matt Boomer is SO HOT but he HAS a partner guys!) "In Plain Sight", "The Closer", "Hawthorne", EVERY EPISODE of "Law & Order: SVU" and "NCIS" and since they no longer show it, I BOUGHT the entire series "Alias" with Jennifer Garner for it was wonderful!

I travel now and then, my favorite places being San Francisco, NYC, Palm Springs, Toronto, Rome, Italy and the Cinque Terra, and Barbados, West Indies. Now WHEN I win the BIG GAME lottery, that's where I'll be, the small, beautiful and romantic island, Barbados, a "break" in the Lesser Antilles archipelago, living in an Oliver Messell-designed home, MOST DEFINITELY one overlooking the Atlantic, high on a cliff on the eastern side of the island, classic in design, constructed of pink coral stone with beautiful terrazzo floors, Demarara shutters and open-air of course, totally furnished with all my lifelong collected treasures, with a garden consisting of NOTHING but FRAGRANT plants and trees and of course hundreds of blooming orchids hanging about everywhere, all surrounding a beautiful terrace and gorgeous grotto pool (just think Villa d'Este at Tivoli near Rome!) I can see it, can you? I AM winning the lottery!! There will be homes in San Francisco and Rome as well, for even in paradise I know I will contract "island fever".

However, I DO intend sharing my winnings, mostly with total strangers and those less fortunate. The Audrey Hepburn Children's Fund will be receiving a HUGE endowment along with me setting up a trust for college scholarships for those deserving and intelligent young people who simply can not afford the expense but are our future, and many other avenues to hopefully improve this world and leave a bit of a legacy behind.

I can not wait to walk into my grocery store and give the lovely, kind and always friendly lady who bags my groceries $500,000.00. You see, she is going blind and yet she STILL works, STILL smiles, STILL is happy and she does MUCH MORE than just bag groceries, for she gives me and others a "gift" money can not buy. In the end, it is HOW a person makes us FEEL that is MOST IMPORTANT! I want the BEST ophthalmologists in the WORLD hopefully to save as much or fully restore her vision. See, EVERYTHING in my life is NOT all about ME and I am quite unselfish. I LOVE giving gifts but finding difficulty in allowing others to give them to me for some reason.

I LOVE ANYTHING Italian and am a clothes/shoes horse, with more shoes than I care to share here. Just face it. The Italians do EVERYTHING BETTER than ANYONE! Between Brioni Roma, Ermenegildo Zegna, Loro Piana, Il Bisonte, Varda, and a few other exceptions such as John Bartlett, Eli Tahari, John Varvatos, Armani, Alexander McQueen, Steven Alan, Sunspel, Persol, Oliver Peoples and ANYTHING from either Wilkes Bashford or MAC in San Francisco, I am dressed to kill! But oddly, even though I AM a clothes horse and can dress for any occasion, I seem to always be dressed in Urban Outfitters, Banana Republic, vintage clothing store items or eBay auction wins. Go figure!

I love animals, having had dogs (Jack Russell terriers for 20 years with 3 generations, my first brought back from Barbados as my birthday present to myself), cats and now have 3 birds. I DO NOT like people who DO NOT like animals.

I believe the only UNPARDONABLE sin is CHOSEN, PURPOSEFUL, WILLFUL AND DELIBERATE CRUELTY. I will NOT forgive a person for this and fully believe nor will God, for those who are guilty of this KNOW what they are doing at the time and KNOWINGLY make the WRONG CHOICE. It is NOT ironic those who have deliberately hurt me are NOT the straight people in my life, but rather the gay men I loved and trusted, only to be duped and deceived with infidelity. And they KNEW what they were doing at the time, CHOOSING their actions, KNOWING I would be devastated! I fully agree with the character in "A Streetcar Named Desire", Blanche DuBois, in her saying "Deliberate cruelty is unforgivable, and the one thing of which I have never, ever been guilty of." There is a RIGHT WAY and a WRONG WAY, PERIOD! There is NO ROOM for any "middle ground" here...NO "shades of gray" regarding this subject. "

And he's not done yet. There's more beyond the jump.

These real life mystery profile write ups are 100% authentic and out there, somewhere. I will never release where I found this profile or how I found it but really you just can't make this shit up. These new series of posts entitled Male Profiles are just another new way for you to experience what's out there in the world of LBGT online profiles. This of course does not represent the gay community as a whole as everyone, gay or straight, has their own kind of fetish that they love to explore.