Age: 43
Location: North Carolina
Safe Sex: Most of the time

"Hey guys! 44 year old guy next door here. In high school I was that good student, wrestler, Key Club and Student Council member, band member, social drinker, that has friends in every circle. You probably remember me as the guy who invited you to sleep over at my house or you invited me over to yours. I slept in my boxers only. I usually woke up with a raging hard on, didn't try to hide it, and acted like it was normal (which helped you trust me and yourself a whole lot more). If we were camping I slept naked in my sleeping bag and I made sure you noticed. Hey, I am a bit of an exhibitionist.

We'd usually wind up wrestling in the bed or the family room floor - some times I'd win, sometimes I'd let you win, and we'd get into one of those holds that allowed us to smell the other guys crotch. Some of you will remember me as the first guy you jacked off with. Others of you will remember how we actually got the point that we jacked each other off. You might even have learned to moan and make noises getting off watching me really get into it. It was pretty cool, huh? We never kissed, or did anything else, but if you are honest now... we thought about it (a lot).

In college, I was socially active, a frat member and a chapter officer, made pretty good grades, an injured college wrestler (got the wounds to prove it). I love to man-to-man contact... I was hugger and even kiddingly gave guys kisses (but only a couple of people ever figured it out). I was a pretty good middle school through college wrestler, but never got a hard on during a match - THAT'S HOW YOU LOSE, and I am competitive.

I was the guy with the chest hair and who had to shave his chin and upper lip by the end of junior high. Now I get my back waxed and trim my chest. Occasionally I've grow a beard out of boredom with shaving. Both the girls and guys seemed to like the beard.

There is the possibility that in college - after a pretty wild night of partying - we wound up having sex. We were probably already pretty close friends - either in the same fraternity or team. Unlike high school we skipped the porn and jacking off and went straight to the making out, sucking, and fucking. We might even have had a real crush on each other somewhere along the way, but we couldn't really tell each other. We said it by keeping confidences, sharing "looks" that everyone else thought had to do with some private joke, having each other's back, and finding the place and time (increasingly without alcohol) to give pleasure to each other physically. Now separated by fifteen years and two thousand miles - we both think back those times and get a rush!

Today, I am your neighbor or co-worker that everyone likes and respects... my cologne is Chanel for Men that you can catch just a scent of when standing right next to me. I'm not married but have plenty of friends and an active social life. I like wine and bourbon and branch over bear. It's an expensive pleasure along with the Brooks Brothers suits and the weekly dry cleaning tab.

I'm straight acting because I have never thought of myself as feminine. I grew up, not tough or butch, but as a Southern gentleman with manners but not afraid to horse a round, using muscle and humor to establish my place in the male pecking order. I didn't have to be the "most" in any group or the "best" at anything especially. "Confident" is a word that people sometimes use describing me.

I've never thought of myself as "gay" - because I went to college during the time that they were teaching us that sexuality was a "continuum", so I took it to heart! I like guys and girls... I'm old enough now that I believe that as long as you are honest about how you feel about someone - that's what counts. No "perfect fit into a slot", pigeonholing, or finding the perfect label. I'm me - I like being liked by others but it is not the end all for me. I am a very physical person - I like touching, I like the smells and tastes of other people. I can't and don't need to change that now.

You'll notice that my nipples usually show through my shirts (even with a tee shirt underneath)... especially when I am around good looking guys. Now I'm getting a bit of gray to my brown hair (and I sort of like it).

I usually wear surfer shorts at the pool and basketball shorts at the gym. Growing up in the late 60's and 70's in a small Southern town, speedos were a bit too bold a fashion statement. I would have never made fun of anyone else wearing them, but I would definitely have clandestinely gotten as close as I could to see a good look at the fellow's bulge.

You probably wonder what I look like naked... especially since I like my package and adjust it for visibility especially when there are guys with similar interests on the machine next to me or I'm catching some rays. If we pass each other in the shower you'd see that I am not a show-er but a grow-er. Nothing to be ashamed frankly. I've average in length. But if you ever get the chance to see me in the right mood and setting... you'd discover that I grow pretty nicely... thick and straight. Nice full head. I sweat during sex - even if it's cold or outdoors. I like guys who sweat as well. It's probably my only unhygienic "thing" but I love the taste of a man's sweat, saliva, skin and... well, you know what I am talking about.

Oh yeah, one more thing, occasionally you'll catch me touching or pinching my nipples... nothing too overt, but if I've caught your eye it's possible.

So there you have it. The picture I posted is from Christmas this year. If you want to see more, you have to tell me about you. Okay?

UPDATE: Summer 2009 - My job let's met do some traveling and though I don't usually do the annonymous "hook up" thing I am open to anyone saying "hi." I have friends in every category except mean-spirited shitheads. If that doesn't describe you... drop me a line. Phrases like "leatherman", "Daddy Men", and "Sex Pig" aren't usually applied to me, but I have friends that probably fit those descriptions. I like people so keep those messages and emails coming in guys!"

These real life mystery profile write ups are 100% authentic and out there, somewhere. I will never release where I found this profile or how I found it but really you just can't make this shit up. These new series of posts entitled Male Profiles are just another new way for you to experience what's out there in the world of LBGT online profiles. This of course does not represent the gay community as a whole as everyone, gay or straight, has their own kind of fetish that they love to explore.