Well, I'll give this a go:

1)What is your opinion on men on the DL? I'm not talking about men who can't come out because of political or social issues in theiry city/country. I mean the men who are married or otherwise involved with women and sleep with men on the side.

2)What's your take on racism in the gay community?

3)Which Seancody model would you want as a bottom? Which one as a top? Which one however the hell he'd take you?

Okay, caffeine fueled speed thinking and typing over for now.

Why do I let the love of my life continue to live with me, even though he sleeps with a woman???

Patric,

Men on the DL:

I believe these men need to understand that the limited thrills and sexual sensations they feel during their "Down Low" moments are just that... limited and come with emotional restraints.

The person in question who is hiding their hidden sexual interests from their straight family members and friends needs to find the sole reason as to why they seek same sex encounters while living it "straight".

They need to find that sole reason as to why they are performing their down low antics and personally struggle to break free from that sole reason.

And the answer to any reason they come up with is of course the truth.

I do not respect men living the down low life because their "straight" lie is causing a waste in life. By this I mean the people they continue to lie to are wasting their life believing what they know to be the truth. Give them the actual truth and let them live their life and not your lie.

Racism in the GLBT Community:

I have actually never encounter any form of racism within the GLBT community. But it does exist.

My thoughts for anyone who is living a lifestyle based on racial prejudice should take the time to ask themselves why they feel the way they feel.

Is it based on here say and stories or is it based on personal experiences.

If it's based on personal experiences the person in question needs to educate themselves by learning that the actions of one person does not speak for their social group.

If need be the person in question should actually talk to someone of the race they currently feel prejudice towards and get educated. It's one hell of a personal move towards self improvment but the payoff is indescribable.

Sean Cody Lust:

I would pray to the heavens to be Grant's bottom. And I would bless myself with holy water to top Riley, hairy bottoms are my fav.

And my queer heart will always belong to Patrick. His physical beauty would make an Angel weep.

Thanks for asking Patric! ;o)

Okay, caffeine fueled speed thinking and typing over for now.

Scotty,

Before I get to your question, here me out. There's a straight guy in my life that I have a major crush on, let's call him "J".

If we shared an apartment for some reason then the fantasy of love would remain present and over whelming. I would be emotionally cut off from outside male interests and continue to believe "J" would finally see me as a lover rather then a friend.

Thinking about this situation makes my heart ache and my stomach turn.

I'm at a point now where I no longer see "J" as a possibility. He's my friend and that's all.

Here's why. I see myself as being gay with no possibility of me ever falling in love with a woman. I'm not straight and I'm not bisexual. I'm gay and I love dick. Not pussy.

"J" is straight. He loves pussy. And tits. He doesn't see me or men in general as sexual objects. He sees us as friends and that's it. That is how I see "J" now.

I'm free from "J". He no longer controls my feelings or emotions. If I lived with "J" I would now be fine knowing that he's straight and I'm gay.

I also now believe that there's someone else out there waiting for me. Someone that I could have missed out on because I was infactuated with "J".

Longing for someone who is straight thus unattainable is a waste of your very precious time on this earth.

Once you self train yourself to see "the love of your life" as a straight friend then you can get on with your new "love of your life" guys without your current infactuation fucking it up for you.

And I didn't get over "J" overnight. I took some weeks of self education.

So... the reason you still live with the "love of your life" is because you still consider him a possibility when in fact the possiblity of a gay relationship with him should be looked at realistically. I highly doubt it will happen. Let it go.

Every time you look at him teach yourself to see him as a pussy lickin' kind of guy. He's your friend and you love him the way he is... A pussy lickin' friend. Wish him the best with this "woman" and get back to looking for the new love of your life.

Who said we only get one? I have 20.

Thanks for asking Scotty!

where do you get most of the hot pictures you post in your blog?

and why the brazilian titles?

just curious :)

Why led you to create your magazine? What were you trying to do differently to other such ventures (print or online)?

Michael D.,

Honestly, off the world wide net over the past few years where I've built up a massive collection of photos.

I also have a good handful of reader submissions from online friends who enjoy sharing photos.

As for the portuguese titles, well I'd figure I would give people something different to take in visually. I mean who isn't a fan of portuguese? And brazilians?

Thanks for asking Michael D.!

Mike,

I decided I would start a themed blog because I felt I needed a theme to express my interests. Some can express themselves brillantly through just words minus a foto whereas I enjoy expressing myself through photography and visual stimulates.

I believe a good magazine is photography and/or words and I'd like to think I have a talent in showcasing wonderful photography for the average guy who's into guys.

This is a small step into an actual magazine venture I'd like to pursue one day but that would be a few years from now- that is if people are still interested in Magmozine.com. ;o)

And to answer your 2nd question, the only thing I can offer differently than other magazines on the market is my own self expression. No one has it. No one can recreate it.

And I just hope people continue to enjoy what I believe fits appropriately into the online pages of Magmozine.com.

I will say Magmozine.com could use more articles and text... I'm working on that. I was actually going to do a big piece on a major hush-hush fetish but the research got too disturbing. I had to move onto something else.

Thanks for asking Mike!

1) Whats your take on blogs that can be classified of the "venting" sort, ones where the authors seem to blow off some steam?

2) Whats your opinion on letting your 'friend' move in with you (cause both of you are under financial restraints) who is actually a deep felt crush?

3) How can I make money using a blog? Going back to school soon, so I really need to know.

PS. Great blog, I love it. Your THE inspiration for me to start my own. Congrats and keep up the originality and awesomeness. (thats right, i said "awesomeness" ..)

Lone Wolf,

Venting Blogs:

To each their own. A blog should represent the owners unique style and voice and if the person currently feels the need to rant, bitch, moan and justify their feelings regarding life, love and pop culture issues, then by all means, I welcome their blogs.

But at some point the person who continues to shit on the world needs to figure out how they can change their own personal views because do we really need another shit talker who does nothing to actually help clean up the world's shit?

Deep Felt Crush/Friend:

I have no idea whether the friend you speak of is straight or gay... so here I go.

Straight - Read my previous answer regarding Scotty's dilemma.

Gay - Just be fucking honest with the guy. If both are in agreement to move in with each other you need to be openly honest with him. Get it over with.

Sit him down and tell him that you honestly have an innocent crush on the guy.

Don't tell him "any guy would be lucky to have you" type shit because you're hoping that he'll see you as an option before he sees the next hot fucker walking down the street.

Simply ask him how he feels about you. Don't ask him "friend or lover", just let him answer freely on his own.

If he says friend, then take the friendship and discuss whether moving in together is still a sensible idea. Once you personally realize the guy is not into you then you can stop wasting your life hoping for a fantasy and get out and date a real person that will give you real feelings. Your crush will be happy for you in the end because aren't we all happy when another friend has found love.

If he says he's interested in a relationship, avoid moving in at once and start dating while living separately. Simple as that. If the relationship lasts and the act of moving in reintroduces itself then the move in process will become romantic rather than being just based on a financial relationship.

Making Money:

Nearly any money making website offers an affiliate program. These are programs you can set up on your website/blog that help you and the website make money as a team. Most blogs self teach themselves about getting a program set up and you must be familiar with html codes.

If you think jerk off self made videos are the way to go then start filming yourself and selling it. Or sell your used clothing as there is always a market for used sweaty, cum filled articles of clothing for jerk off fanatics. But remember, once your x rated video is sent out to a buyer, your sexual content remains forever undeleted.

You could ask for donations as some blogs do but you would need a devoted web audience to help you with costs in maintaining the blog itself and not your next trip to the designer men's store.

Finally, just be honest and let your web audience know that you're college bound and that you're in need of financial help regarding college costs.

Leave the sad story(ies) out and just let them know that you are making something out of yourself.

If people trust and believe in you then they can donate money through programs such as pay pal and help you cover certain bills. It would be nice to show the web audience what bill they help pay or what costs they helped pay. But asking anonymously with no pictures won't get you a dime... show us yourself and your life in college.

Thanks for asking Lone Wolf! Loved your words of encouragment!

What gay bars/clubs do U hang out in in Dallas when you go out?

Have you ever posted a picture of yourself on this blog in secret?

What's the worst gay sexual experience you've ever had?

Have you ever had sex with a very out of shape man; and if so why and what was that experience like?

Have you ever had sex with a black man?

What do you do professionally?

Is Seancody model Patrick really straight?

Do you personally know the huge armed dude who is pictured in your about me profile?

thank,
Louis

Louis,

Gay Bars:

I actually don't frequent the gay bars in Dallas. I've been to a few gay pride parades down at Cedar Springs. I've been to Sue Ellens. But that was about a year and a half ago. I guess I'm not the type anymore to go to gay bars. I'd rather enjoy the city life than the club life.

Secret Foto:

I have not. Sorry to disappoint. I'm very comfortable with being anonymous to the web and I enjoy the fact that my work brings back a steady audience.

Worst Gay Experience:

Well I don't want to say this one was the worst but it's the one that cums to mind.

While I was on my knees enjoying a jock's dick... he let out an ugly as fuck fart and the smell kept making me gag. The mood was destroyed by a fart. Simple moment but one I can never forget.

Out of Shape Man:

No I have not had sex with an out of shape man. I believe those who have let themselves go need to find that inspirational person to drive them to a healthier lifestyle. They don't have to be a Sean Cody body type but they need a proper mix of muscle and flab to seduce me. I'm very much into Gentlemen [40 years of age and older] and some are built with half muscle and half flab... just like a "daddy" should be.

Sex with a Black Man:

No, I've sucked a nice dark thick veined dick with a monster cock head but I have yet to have actual sex with a "black man".

My Day Job:

I did once have a full time job in a big building but I left it to continue my lust for website and blog entertainment. The time I would have put into working a 9 to 5 job now goes into maintaining and updating AGuySite.com, Magmozine.com, GuyTVBlog.com & and my newest Disney inspired blog that debuts in April 2006.

Is Patrick straight?:

I don't think anyone knows the answer to this question other than Patrick himself so how dare I or anyone answer on his behalf. He's experimental for all I know, and that's the best kind of "straight" guy there is.

Huge Armed Dude:

No I don't. He's just another photograph off the net. Someone once told me who he was but I already forgot his name.

Thanks for asking Louis!

okay! so i've date (more like had sex, thinking it was a date) with a few men since i was 16.. and i'm 18 now.. but anyways.. i always tend to run into the wrong guys online.. is there hope for finding zee one on the internet?

ugh.. and.. recently, i've met someone who is in another province (i'm canadian) than i am.. and we've been chatting and all for 9 months.. seems kinda promising.. and then one night i see him in a chatroom.. and i can't seem to trust him again, aside from that.. i decided to give it another try..

by the way, his reasoning was that he just reassurance.. and i truly believe he's not a jerk.. but then recently.. we've hit problems like, he thinks i accuse of him doing stuff and so on.. and also that i always ask him too many questions.. and stuff like that..

but i dunno.. i feel like i have lost a bit of trust but not severely.. especially when we were suppose to meet in a month's time.. i thot everything was actually going okay.. but then.. it was quite different with him.. and it's been a week.. but i sorta want to reapproach him.. b/c i was the one who decided to drop things since he wouldn't be brave enough to say bye.. and i felt like i had to..

now i feel like maybe i'm missing out on something? maybe being friends for now is a good thing? or i should just try to talk to him again?

Craig,

OH MY GAWDDD CRAIG!

That was one hell of a drama filled post that you left me. And so now I'm going to fucking be honest with you.

Yes there's hope for finding "zee one" at the ripe young age of 18 years old but finding him online... well, if your life is currently dependent on pc friends and chat rooms, you ain't going to find "zee one" but you will find amazing fuck buddies and new best friends.

Don't get me wrong, you should still seek love and a relationship through internet connections but expect that any relationship, whether created from online profiles or through mutual friends offline, will fail if you and/or the other person haven't yet realized that a sense of maturity is essential when it comes to building a fucking solid relationship.

Basically if you're mature enough to keep a solid relationship going and the person online that you met is also mature enough to keep a solid relationship going, then online love is possible and very much real.

When it comes to you expressing such personal incidents as "then one night i see him in a chatroom... and i can't seem to trust him again" and "he thinks i accuse of him doing stuff... and also that i always ask him too many questions", well I sense some immature behaviour [on both sides] and the need of personal growth [from both sides] is needed.

These problems are small and can easily be fixed with a mature state of mind. These are not issues you are bringing up but more incidents overblown into unnecessary drama. I'm just fucking telling you how it is.

So with all that said, I believe you and this guy are going to be great friends. I mean if you and him can talk for 9 solid months... then you've got something to build on and I'm talking about a great friendship.

If you actually miss him... reintroduce yourself as a friend. Because if you pursue a relationship with this guy, it seems the trust issue [on your part] is just going to get worse.

If you decide to just forget him and move on, then use this experience as a learning experience.

You, along with much of today's youth, have trust issues [and even some of us older folks have trust issues] but you need to figure out why YOU have trust issues and then fix that part of you so that your next potential love can in fact be "zee one".

Thanks for asking Craig!